1. Save the date postcards or magnets — send it digitally or skip it all together!

2. Favors — why not make a donation instead? There are nice ways to present your intentions at your reception (more to come on that topic).

3. A basket of goodies for the ladies’ room at the reception — this is a nice idea, but don’t go crazy trying to do this. I’m pretty sure someone other than our guests helped themselves to our sundries.